Use your fingers at your wedding to catch anything thrown at you. Catch the bouquet, for example, or catch the rice everyone throws at you. Weddings are really more about catching things with your fingers than they are about whoever is standing across from you.

You're having a good time catching things until it's cleanup time and someone throws a hoe (ほ) at you. First of all, ouch, that was your face. Second, this is your wedding. You aren't supposed to have to hoe it all up. You're supposed to drop everything you caught and leave!