You may feel a little out of place, but please be patient for me.
A spicy hug is a hug that feels not so great. But, it's not really painful all at once, either. As you're receiving a spicy hug, you just have to show patience and endurance while it lasts.
This is a jukugo word that uses the on'yomi readings of the kanji. You didn't learn the reading of 抱's on'yomi reading, so think about how much patience and endurance you need to learn how to be good at bowling (ぼう).